Who is abusing whom here?

Everyone of OUR posts is showing the abuse from the reformer side, and clearly can be shown to be posted AFTER the abuse they post. Our posts are NOT abusive as we are simply giving our OPINION as to the nature of their posts as well as leaving it up to you, our readers, to decide who is really the abuser in these situations. Showing those who accuse others of murder, calling out children (minor children at that), posting private medical information illegally obtained, and so much more - we ask you, the reader, who is abusive here?